The Coffee Date (+ beyond)
We opted for Starbucks on an uncharacteristically warm Sunday in December. I greeted him with a warm handshake because I had no idea what else to do and I had never felt more nervous for anything in my life. I ordered my usual; he already had his drink. Conversation went far beyond TFA - we talked about life and teaching and what brought him to Wabash and how his professor was my assistant soccer coach and his assistant baseball coach was my dentist. We talked about trips and hometowns and school and I realized his eyes were the color of blue that I always said was my favorite but never knew how to describe. I was floored by his kindness and willed the date (?) (business meeting? informational TFA appointment?) to last a little longer. Eventually, we wrapped up our conversation, ended with a side hug, and headed for our homes. The goodbye was ambiguous: would I call him? would he call me? I told him we'd wait and see, and it was Christmas Eve when he texted and asked if I was...